Both Team Wellington's Jose Figueira and Waitakere United's Chris Milicich must have been asking themselves that at various points on Sunday afternoon watching their respective sides give their all in a game which will go down in New Zealand footballing folklore as one of the best ever.
To recap, the Stirling Sports Premiership semifinal at David Farrington Park ended 4-4 at fulltime, 6-6 after extra time before Team Wellington won the penalty shootout 3-2.
Both sides deserved to win it. Waitakere led 4-3 with three minutes to go in normal time before Tom Jackson equalised for Wellington. Wellington's Joel Stevens scored a screamer with two minutes to go in extra time to put his side up 6-5, only for Waitakere's Pascal Reinhardt to again equalise.